Let’s be real: training your dog is one of the best investments you’ll make as a pet owner. But here’s what nobody tells you—it’s not just about teaching “sit” and “stay.” It’s about understanding how your dog’s brain works, what motivates them, and yes, sometimes understanding the calories of a Costco hot dog (because let’s face it, training treats matter).
Whether you’ve got a stubborn Golden Retriever who thinks he’s the boss or a anxious rescue pup who jumps at shadows, this guide will walk you through practical, science-backed training techniques that actually work. I’ve spent years in vet clinics watching owners struggle with behavioral issues that could’ve been prevented with solid foundational training. Let’s fix that.
Build a Rock-Solid Foundation
Before you teach your dog anything fancy, you need to establish that you’re a trustworthy leader. This doesn’t mean being harsh or domineering—it means being predictable, fair, and someone your dog actually wants to listen to.
Start with the basics: sit, down, stay, and come. These aren’t just tricks; they’re the vocabulary your dog needs to communicate with you. When your dog knows these commands, they feel more confident because they understand what you expect.
According to the American Kennel Club’s training guidelines, dogs learn best through repetition and positive reinforcement. That means short, frequent training sessions (5-10 minutes) are way more effective than one long marathon session. Your dog’s attention span is shorter than you think.
Here’s the framework:
- Start in a quiet, distraction-free space (your living room, not the park)
- Use high-value rewards (we’ll talk about what those are in a second)
- Keep sessions short and end on a success
- Train before meals when your dog is motivated by food
- Practice one command at a time until it’s solid
Think of it like learning a language. You wouldn’t try to learn French, Spanish, and German simultaneously. You’d pick one, master the basics, then move on.
Understand What Motivates Your Dog
Here’s where most people mess up: they assume all dogs are motivated by the same things. Spoiler alert—they’re not.
Some dogs are food-driven (the majority). Some are toy-driven. Some are praise-driven (the people-pleasers). A few weird ones are even play-driven. Your job is to figure out what makes YOUR dog tick.
Do a quick test: What does your dog do when they’re excited? Do they run to the treat jar? Do they grab their favorite toy? Do they jump on you for attention? That’s your answer.
Food-motivated dogs are usually the easiest to train because the reward is immediate and clear. But here’s the catch—you need to use treats they actually care about. A piece of regular kibble? Boring. A tiny piece of chicken or cheese? Now we’re talking.
If your dog isn’t food-motivated, don’t panic. You can use toys, play sessions, or even verbal praise. Some dogs will do backflips for a “good boy!” and a belly rub. Others need something more tangible.
Pro Tip: Rotate your training treats. If you use the same treat every single day, it becomes boring. Your dog’s motivation drops. Keep a few high-value options in rotation—chicken, cheese, hot dog pieces, freeze-dried liver. Variety keeps them engaged.
And yes, we’re about to talk about the calories of a Costco hot dog because if you’re using hot dog pieces as training treats, you need to know what you’re actually feeding your dog.
Training Treats and the Calories of a Costco Hot Dog
Let’s address the elephant in the room: the calories of a Costco hot dog. A standard Costco hot dog (the all-beef kind they’ve kept at $1.50 since 1983, because apparently that’s a company promise) contains approximately 290 calories.
Now, here’s why this matters for training: if you’re using hot dog pieces as training treats and you’re doing 50 repetitions a day with your dog, you’re potentially adding 100+ calories to their diet just from training. For a 30-pound dog, that’s roughly 10-15% of their daily caloric needs, depending on their age and activity level.
This is why understanding treat calories matters. Dogs that seem always hungry might actually be getting too many calories from training treats, which throws off their regular meals and makes them legitimately hungrier.
Here’s a smart approach to training treats:
- Cut treats into tiny pieces – You don’t need a whole hot dog slice. A piece the size of a pea works fine. Your dog gets the reward, you control the calories.
- Use lower-calorie options – Green beans (3 calories per piece), carrots (1 calorie), or air-popped popcorn (3 calories per piece) work great for some dogs.
- Account for training treats in daily calories – If your dog eats 800 calories a day, and training treats add 100 calories, adjust their regular meals accordingly.
- Alternate between food and non-food rewards – Mix in toy play, praise, and petting to reduce treat dependency.
For reference, a single hot dog piece (about 1/4 of a Costco hot dog) is roughly 72 calories. If you’re training with these daily, you’re adding significant calories to your dog’s diet. Small breeds especially can gain weight quickly from training treats.
The solution isn’t to stop using treats—they’re incredibly effective for training. The solution is to be smart about portion sizes and track them like you would any other part of your dog’s diet.
Master the Timing of Rewards
Timing is everything in dog training. I mean EVERYTHING. A reward given even one second too late loses its power because your dog won’t connect the behavior with the reward.
Here’s how it works: your dog sits, you immediately say “yes!” and give the treat. Your dog’s brain makes the connection: “When my butt touches the ground, good things happen.” That’s learning.
But if you say “good sit, now let me find a treat in the kitchen,” your dog has already moved and is confused about what they did right. The learning window closes fast.
This is why a clicker is such a game-changer. A clicker is a small handheld device that makes a distinctive “click” sound. You click the EXACT moment your dog does the right thing, then immediately follow with a treat. The click bridges the gap between behavior and reward.
Here’s the sequence:
- Dog does the behavior (sits)
- You click immediately
- You give treat within 1-2 seconds
- Dog’s brain: “Sit = click = treat = I did something right”
Without a clicker, you have to be lightning-fast with your treat delivery. With a clicker, the click becomes the promise of a reward, and the timing becomes less critical.
According to PetMD’s dog training resources, clicker training is one of the most effective methods for teaching new behaviors because it creates clarity for the dog.
Safety Warning: Some dogs are sensitive to sound. If your dog jumps or cowers at the clicker, use a verbal marker instead (like “yes!” or “mark!”). The principle is the same; you’re just using your voice instead of a device.
Avoid These Training Killers

I’ve watched hundreds of owners accidentally sabotage their own training efforts. Here are the biggest mistakes:
1. Inconsistent Commands – You say “sit,” your partner says “sit down,” your mom says “have a seat.” Your dog gets confused. Pick one word per command and stick with it. Everyone in the household needs to use the same word.
2. Rewarding Bad Behavior – Your dog jumps on guests and you pet them while saying “no, no, no.” Guess what? You just rewarded jumping. If you don’t want a behavior, don’t reinforce it—even accidentally.
3. Training When You’re Frustrated – Dogs pick up on your energy. If you’re annoyed or angry, your dog will be tense and less receptive. If you’re frustrated, take a break. Training should be fun for both of you.
4. Expecting Too Much Too Fast – Your puppy isn’t going to be perfectly housetrained in a week. Your rescue dog isn’t going to trust you completely in a month. Training is a process. Celebrate small wins.
5. Punishing Mistakes – If your dog doesn’t sit on command, that’s not a reason to yell or use punishment. It means they haven’t learned it yet. Go back to basics and practice more.
6. Skipping the Basics – Everyone wants to teach their dog cool tricks, but foundation matters. A dog that knows “sit,” “down,” and “come” reliably is way more manageable than a dog that knows “roll over” but won’t listen to anything else.
7. Not Accounting for Hunger and Energy – A tired, hungry dog is unmotivated. A dog that just ate a huge meal has no interest in treats. Train when your dog is alert and food-motivated, which is usually before regular meals.
Socialization: The Training Most People Skip
Here’s a hard truth: socialization IS training. It’s arguably the most important training you’ll ever do with your dog.
Socialization means exposing your dog to different people, places, sounds, and situations in a positive, controlled way. A well-socialized dog is confident, less reactive, and easier to manage in the real world.
The critical socialization window for puppies is roughly 3-14 weeks old. During this time, puppies are naturally curious and less fearful. If you miss this window, you’re not out of luck—adult dogs can still be socialized—but it takes more patience and effort.
Here’s what socialization looks like:
- Introducing your puppy to different people (men, women, kids, elderly folks)
- Exposing them to different environments (parks, busy streets, car rides, vet clinics)
- Letting them hear different sounds (traffic, thunderstorms, vacuum cleaners, children playing)
- Meeting other dogs in controlled settings
- Experiencing different surfaces (grass, concrete, gravel, water)
The goal isn’t to make your dog love everything. It’s to make them neutral about things so they’re not reactive or fearful.
Many behavioral problems—aggression, excessive barking, reactivity—stem from poor socialization, not from a “bad” dog. A dog that wasn’t properly socialized might see a stranger and think “threat!” because that’s unfamiliar. A well-socialized dog thinks “new person, probably fine.”
The American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior has excellent resources on proper socialization practices that go beyond just exposing your dog to stuff.
Consistency Is Your Secret Weapon
If there’s one thing that separates owners with well-trained dogs from owners with chaotic dogs, it’s consistency.
Consistency means:
- Everyone in the household uses the same commands and rules
- You practice regularly (daily, even if just for 5 minutes)
- You reward the same behaviors every time, not just sometimes
- You enforce boundaries consistently
- You don’t make exceptions to the rules
Dogs thrive on predictability. When they know exactly what you expect and what happens when they do (or don’t) do it, they feel secure. They’re more likely to listen because the rules are clear.
Think of it like traffic laws. If sometimes people get ticketed for speeding and sometimes they don’t, drivers get confused. They might speed anyway because the consequence isn’t guaranteed. But if speeding always results in a ticket, drivers change their behavior.
Same with dogs. If your dog gets away with jumping on guests sometimes but gets corrected other times, they won’t understand the rule. But if jumping NEVER gets them what they want (attention, even negative attention), they’ll eventually stop.
Here’s the consistency challenge: it’s hard. It requires discipline and follow-through, especially when you’re tired or busy. But it’s the difference between a trained dog and a chaotic one.
Tackling Problem Behaviors Head-On
Most problem behaviors fall into a few categories. Let’s address the big ones:
Jumping on People – Your dog isn’t being dominant or disrespectful. They’re excited and seeking attention. The fix: don’t give them attention (even negative) when they jump. Turn away, cross your arms, ignore them completely. Only give attention when all four paws are on the ground. Teach guests to do the same.
Excessive Barking – First, figure out why they’re barking. Boredom? Anxiety? Alerting you to something? Seeking attention? The fix depends on the cause. A bored dog needs more exercise and mental stimulation. An anxious dog might need desensitization training. An attention-seeking barker needs to learn that barking doesn’t work.
Pulling on the Leash – Your dog pulls forward, you pull back. It’s a tug-of-war that never ends. The fix: stop moving when they pull. Wait for them to look back at you or loosen the leash, then move forward. Reward them for walking loosely. It takes patience, but it works.
Not Coming When Called – This is usually a motivation issue or a reliability issue. Your dog doesn’t think “come” is worth leaving what they’re doing. The fix: practice “come” in low-distraction environments first. Use high-value rewards. Make coming to you the best thing ever. Then gradually practice in more distracting environments.
Resource Guarding – Your dog growls when you approach their food bowl or toy. This is serious and shouldn’t be punished (it usually makes it worse). The ASPCA has detailed guidance on managing resource guarding, but honestly, this is a situation where a professional trainer is worth the investment.
Separation Anxiety – Your dog freaks out when you leave. They might destroy things, have accidents, or bark excessively. This isn’t a training issue as much as an anxiety issue. You need to build their confidence and independence gradually, and sometimes medication helps. Talk to your vet.
For most problem behaviors, the solution is understanding the root cause, not just punishing the symptom. A dog that’s destructive might be bored, anxious, or under-exercised. Yelling at them doesn’t fix any of those things.
Frequently Asked Questions
At what age should I start training my dog?
– Start immediately, even with puppies as young as 8 weeks. Puppies can learn basic commands and house training right away. Early training sets the foundation for everything else. That said, puppies have short attention spans, so keep sessions super short (2-5 minutes) and fun.
How long does it take to train a dog?
– It depends on the dog, the behavior, and your consistency. A simple command like “sit” might take 1-2 weeks of daily practice. A solid “come” recall might take 2-3 months. Fixing a serious behavioral problem might take months or years. There’s no magic timeline—consistency matters more than speed.
Is it too late to train an adult dog?
– Absolutely not. Adult dogs can learn new behaviors and break old habits. It might take longer than training a puppy, but it’s totally possible. If you adopted a rescue dog, don’t assume they’re “broken” or “too old to teach.” Give them time and patience.
Should I use punishment-based training methods?
– Research consistently shows that positive reinforcement-based training is more effective and creates fewer behavioral problems than punishment-based methods. Punishment might suppress a behavior temporarily, but it doesn’t teach your dog what TO do, and it can create fear and anxiety. Stick with rewards.
Can I train my dog myself or do I need a professional?
– You can absolutely train your dog yourself for basic commands and good manners. But for serious behavioral issues (aggression, severe anxiety, resource guarding), a certified professional trainer is worth the investment. Look for trainers certified by the Certification Council for Professional Dog Trainers (CCPDT) or similar organizations.
How do I know if my dog understands a command?
– Your dog understands a command when they do it consistently (at least 80% of the time) across different environments and with different people. If they only sit when you’re in your living room with a treat in your hand, they don’t really understand “sit” yet—they understand “sit in this specific situation.” Keep practicing in different places.
What if my dog isn’t food-motivated?
– Not every dog is food-motivated, and that’s okay. Try using toys, play sessions, or verbal praise as rewards. Some dogs will work harder for a game of fetch than for any treat. Figure out what YOUR dog wants and use that. You can also try training before meals when your dog is more likely to be hungry.
Is clicker training better than treat training?
– Clicker training is a tool that makes treat training more effective by improving timing. The clicker isn’t magic—it’s just a way to communicate “yes, that’s right” more clearly. You can train without a clicker, but a clicker can speed up the process. Try both and see what works for your dog.
Why does my dog listen at home but not at the park?
– Your dog isn’t being stubborn or disrespectful. The park has way more distractions and your dog’s motivation changes. This is why you practice in progressively more distracting environments. Start at home, move to a quiet park, then a busier park. Build up their reliability gradually.
Can I train multiple dogs at once?
– You can, but it’s harder. Dogs get distracted by each other. For the fastest learning, train them separately. Once they both know a command individually, you can practice together.
What about training treats for dogs with dietary restrictions?
– Check with your vet about safe treat options for your dog’s specific dietary needs. Dogs with digestive issues need special consideration with training treats. Some dogs do well with kibble-based treats, while others need novel proteins or limited ingredients. Work with your vet to find options that won’t upset their stomach.

Is it normal for my dog to regress in training?
– Yes, totally normal. Dogs regress when they’re stressed, sick, not getting enough exercise, or when training consistency drops. If your dog suddenly stops listening, check what’s changed in their environment or routine. Usually it’s a sign something’s off, not that your training failed.
How do I prevent my dog from eating things they shouldn’t?
– This is a management issue more than a training issue. Don’t leave tempting items within reach. Teach “leave it” and “drop it” commands through positive training. Supervise your dog, especially as a puppy. And be aware that some foods are toxic—certain snacks like Takis aren’t safe for dogs, so keep them completely out of reach.







